i am a proffesional. recently out of a long term relationship. looking too have some fun and enjoy myself..in 2000 i was diagnosed wih high grade lymphoma. after taking all the poison etc i am now healthy. been in remission since 2002. why i tell u this is becuz i found that my sex drive and arousal required additional stimulation (besides the lil blue pill) lol!!! though always having been dominant in my life (spanking and toys and food) for many years. The new dominant role took on a life all its own. I want to play in the bedroom with someone where their body is mine for the taking and where they will submit to my wants and desires. Where WE will both have fun!!!Outside of the role I want some stimulating conversation. So I guess it wouldnt be a lifestyle but more of a pleasure palace.

My Ideal Person I want someone who can be a devoted sub in the bedroom but someone that can stimulte my brain at dinner. unless she is under the table at that time stimulating my other brain!!!