I am: Sassy, flirty, back-talking and more than a little bit geeky. I'm not athletic, though I'm a good dancer and would go more often with a partner. If you're looking for a girl who wants to hike ten miles, live off the land and wrestle bears, I'm probably not the girl for you (I'm not at all outdoorsy). I don't mind heavy drinkers, though I am a moderate drinker, perally. I prefer private parties to the bar scene, games are fun; I'm pretty good at poker. Yes, that kind too. I love men and flirt shamelessly. I give explicit instructions and listen just as well. I love light pain, moderate control games and would explore more intense action. I appreciate the emails but I'm not interested in being with a couple. Women are wonderful, sexy creatures but I really prefer men and I never did learn to share during playtime. Guys, if you want me to respond, don't send an unsolicited cock pic. I'm sure it's there, if I like you, I'm sure I will want to see it but in the meantime, your smile is a much better introduction.

My Ideal Person I have children and live in what can be a small community, I value my privacy and discretion and will give you the same respect. I've been around the scene a bit and I know the lingo. I know that 'discreet' and 'trustworthy' often mean married. I'm not necessarily looking for love or long term but not interested in being the other woman, either. That means absolutely no married men. No exceptions.

I don't have time for baby mama drama, or drama of any kind, really. Please be at least 30; I'm over the "he just needs to grow up a little" stage.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I love roleplay but can be a little dark. Trust is essential.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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